Send a Poke
A poke is a short, real-time toy command sent to yourself or an accepted connection. Open Pokes (/pokes) to send vibes, presets, or custom patterns within your daily allowance and plan limits.
Before you send
- Target must be 💗 Myself or an accepted connection (not pending).
- The target's toys should be online in Pokes if you want a physical reaction on their side.
- Check left (pokes remaining today) in the header stats row.
Finish onboarding to poke others; Myself always works.
Send a poke
- Open Pokes (
/pokes). - Under TARGET, pick 💗 Myself or a connection (
@handlewith online/offline dot). - Choose TYPE:
- ⚡ Poke: single vibe pulse
- 🌊 Preset: built-in pattern (Pulse, Wave, Fireworks, Quake)
- 🎨 Custom Pattern: a pattern you saved (Premium; role may apply)
- Pick ACTION (toy + feature such as Vibrate).
- Set INTENSITY: 5 Default, 10 Tease, 15 Strong, 20 MAX (higher tiers need Premium).
- Press the large POKE button.
Also poke my toy
When poking a connection, toggle Also poke my toy to mirror the command on your own synced device.
Plan limits
| Feature | Free | Premium |
|---|---|---|
| Max intensity | Up to 5 | Up to 20 |
| Presets | Pulse, Wave | + Fireworks, Quake |
| Custom patterns | Locked | Available |
| Daily pokes | Standard cap | Higher cap |
Role-based daily limits from the creator's Connections settings can further cap how many pokes you can send to that creator.
Stats on the Pokes page
- left: pokes remaining today
- streak: consecutive days with poke activity
- total: all-time pokes sent
What you need
- Signed-in Pokes account.
- Lovense toys synced for physical feedback (optional for sending, required for feeling it).
- Accepted connection (to poke someone else).
How to test
- Send a low-intensity poke to 💗 Myself and confirm the toy responds.
- Have a trusted connection send you one poke: confirm cooldowns and limits feel right.
- Try a Preset at intensity 5 before using MAX in a live session.
Troubleshooting
| Problem | What to try |
|---|---|
| POKE button disabled | Finish onboarding or check daily left counter |
| Intensity options grayed | Upgrade to Premium for 10–20 |
| Custom pattern missing | Premium required; pattern may be role-gated |
| Target offline | Wait until their toy shows online on Connections |
| Poke fails silently | Pokes Failing |
See Receive Pokes for the receiving side.